Important to Keep in Mind

Things, people, relationships--all of it--only have the value that you ascribe to them.

Therein Lies the Problem

Qualities I'm drawn to fiercely in guys: immaturity, emotional unavailability, often physical unavailability as well, not having one's own shit together, flakiness disguised as adventurousness.

Qualities I fiercely hate: all of the above.

Qualities I'm most likely so drawn to because they are my qualities too: all of the above.